LIVESTRONG:

And in June 2013 we are back in the revolving door of doctors, this time for my heart. So the focus has shifted, BUT... I continue to THANK YOU for your prayers, love & support. I receive them with open & loving arms. My wish is that I will gain strength from you, will provide strength to others & will help to strip away the fears we each experience.


LIVESTRONG: I am strong. I am loved. I am healthy. WE WILL WIN!

Have you or your loved one had their annual mammogram? PLEASE, don't put it off. Speaking from experience, I highly recommend monthly self exam as well.

WARNING:
Contents may be uplifting, sad, funny, scary, downright depressing ~ THAT IS CANCER .... at it's best, at its worst.

PLEASE ~ Feel free to share this blog with anyone who is interested to learn about my journey. While I welcome their support, I hope that by sharing this experience freely to the universe I may help to support others by breaking down some of the barriers and fear associated with breast cancer and the treatment.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Earthquakes & Oncologists, Oh My...

I'll start with the oncologist update...

Back on August 14th, I had my 6 month check up with my Oncologist, Dr. Ian Anderson. A month or so before, I had a bone density scan, which is done every couple of years now. This does not test for cancer; it checks for bone density, which can be depleted after chemotherapy treatment. My density is slightly lower than the last time, but still within normal ranges. So this was very good news.

Everything else looks very good too! Dr. Anderson always talks about my heart and checks in to see how I am doing there, especially since the suspicion is that the chemo drug Adriamyacin is what keyed the heart failure response, in addition to family history of CHF (Congestive Heart Failure). He was happy to hear that I am feeling very well right now, and trying to be and stay active. So I will see him again in 6 months.

Now on to what seems to be first and foremost in our lives right now, and that is an earthquake measuring 6.1 magnitude and centered about 4.2 miles NW of American Canyon, CA; which is  about 20 miles from here. This hit at 3:20 am today and shook most of us up quite a bit. I thought for sure it was the Rodgers Creek fault, which runs right under us, based on the long violent roll of this earthquake, but it was not. But the sound of glass on tile sounded like lots of glass was breaking and the house was crumbling down around me. In actuality, a few things fell and made loud noises. And a heavy glass and wood mirror, which was propped behind my office door, fell down blocking the door closed. Probably the most significant was an old piece of heavy metal equipment hubby had stored on top of a file cabinet there, and several glass beakers in a similar place, all in the office, fell and dislodged other things. BUT NOTHING BROKE -- So much to be thankful for. But not so for others.  My sister in the East Bay lost chimney bricks, and friends living in the Napa area had whole cabinets topple over and lost bricks from their chimney, too. Then there are people in Napa who lost their homes to fire and those transported to the hospital in critical condition from falling debris/bricks, and store shelves emptied onto the aisle and stuff oozing everywhere, to name a few. I tell you, it was a very scary and helpless feeling.

This was not my first quake. I've survived a few for sure. One I will never forget is when I was about 4 years old living in Marin. We were at the Larsons house and I grabbed onto a floor lamp for stability, which of course was swaying to and fro. So that would have been 1957, and was the Daly City Earthquake, the largest quake in the Bay Area since 1906. Then of course there was the Loma Prieta in 1989, that one none of us will ever forget.

So when this 6.1 temblor hit at 3:20 am, the support began pouring in. Friends and neighbors nearby texted us to check in and see if we were ok or needed help. Facebook lit up with messages, comments, likes, and notifications flying everywhere... people asking how others were, sharing news of their surrounding area, sharing their experience, offering help to others; basically communicating and helping us all to feel at ease and know we were not alone in this experience. It was a good feeling and I am very grateful for the offers of help and the comfort that the communication gave me.

We live in a community of wonderful, sharing, supportive people. THANK YOU one and all. I would not have it any other way!

Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •

THANKS for visiting! I look forward to your comments.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Another Week, Another Cardiologist

Today was my follow up appointment with Dr. Dhar, my local Santa Rosa cardiologist. I love both these guys, Dhar and Fowler (the Stanford cardiologist I saw last week). Both quite experts in their field, so very knowledgeable, but yet with a sense of humor and a gift of entertaining. Or maybe it is just me and how much I like them both and appreciate all they have done for me, AND their fun accents.

As with each of them, Dr. Dhar has the St Jude technician there for me and to read my ICD. My appointments are always on a Tuesday as that is when the St Jude tech is there. There are other types of ICD's so I presume those patients see him on a different day. Regardless, all checked out pretty good. Although he did bring to my attention two periods of heart failure, where there was too much fluid build up. One was mid May and one mid July. I do recall my weight being up a bit in mid-July but thought it was due to all the birthday celebrating. And to think of it, my sodium intake was probably higher during that time from so many meals out. But as the doc said, if I didn't really notice it, then don't worry about it. The important think is to stay diligent about my meds and low sodium consumption.

So I'm free and clear now until my Oncology checkup in a couple of days, and my next cardiology appointment in November, unless of course anything changes. That means play time with grandchildren, and fiber, and animals, and friends, and such.

Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •

THANKS for visiting! I look forward to your comments.

Thursday, August 7, 2014

Stanford Cardiology Checkup

I took my first solo trip to Stanford Cardiology yesterday on August 6th. The drive there was uneventful. I usually drive down through the East Bay to meet up with Alura, who has come with me to each Stanford appointment. But with an eight day old infant, it was not practical for her to make the trip, and Sarah and Mark also had other things going. Besides, it was time I venture out on my own. So I drove down 101 through SF to 280. Piece of cake!

Stanford Hospital & Clinics entrance is just beautiful. Next time I'll do a picnic lunch here.

I planned well and arrived near the hospital 1.25 hours early for my 2:30pm appointment, plenty of time for some lunch. A quick stop at a nearby Starbuck's for a quick restroom stop was in order (their bathrooms are always very clean and easy to access). While there, I noticed they had a decent pre-made turkey sandwich, at a good price, that appeared to be healthy. Besides, a moment to "check-in" via my iPad was also in order. I enjoyed the quiet break after the long drive, but was oh so disappointed to notice that my sandwich contained 940 mg of sodium, but not until it was nearly consumed. You really cannot get anything these days that isn't laden with sodium. I'm glad that we (our country) are starting to look at this, especially after learning that the sodium content of some restaurant foods can be in the 2500 - 3500 mg range. That is just criminal.

I had a 2:30pm appointment, which I knew meant the possibility of an even later visit with Dr. Fowler. We've always been able to get late morning appointments before, but not this time. My fear was for the drive home. So after some knitting and checking devices, it was my appointment time. Soon the nurse took me back to take my vitals and explained they did not have a room for Dr. Fowler yet. So after a very good pulse, BP, AND weight, it was back to the waiting room for a bit. I just love the Pioneer Woman with Ree Drumand, and so was easily placated since this was playing on the TV in the waiting room. Then 15 minutes or so later I was taken back one more time so that my ICD device could be checked. Again, all good numbers -- battery good for another 7-8 years, no events, all ranges looking normal. More good news! Then back to the waiting room. Again, I didn't mind.

It was about 3:15 pm when Dr. Fowler's nurse brought me into an exam room and went over all my meds and such. She apologized for the long wait, but said I could stay right there and I was next on the Doctor's list of patients to be seen. Whew.

Dr. Fowler arrived at about 3:45pm. He was very pleased that I've been feeling so good. He explained that it was not yet time for another Echo cardiogram, and besides -- it was only a number. The most important part was that I am doing well. Especially when I shared the cost of the Echo, which he says he does not receive any of that info, that there was no reason to do another one at this point.

I shared how I've been out walking every week, enjoying friends and family, and especially the newest member, an 8 day old granddaughter. He too has a new granddaughter this year, so we shared our happiness on this topic. He said that even if the Echo remains bad, I would not be a candidate for heart transplant at this point (THANK YOU VERY MUCH, as I want to avoid this like the plague, if possible), and that if I were, the LVAD would most likely be the first step to put me in line, so that the most needy get transplanted first. This is all great for me. 

It appears I will be on these medications for the remaining of my years, that they are not caustic, like cancer meds, that my diuretic dose is still a very low dosage. It is likely that I could dip again in my wellness as well. I know this all too well after getting acquainted with a new "heart sister" whom, like me, had Adriamycin as her chemo drug, and has a family history of Cardiomyopathy with other siblings, but not she. One year after chemo, she fell into heart failure (deja vu, here). She rebounded slightly with an EF of 35% for nearly 10 years, and then things turned for the worse again. Just weeks ago, she received a new heart after 7 months on the wait list. This friend is about 5 years younger than me, so went through all of this at about age 45. Whereas for me, I was 58 when diagnosed with cancer.

I talked to Dr. Fowler about sodium intake, as now I am feeling better, I am eating out more, and feel as though I am not quite as careful as I was a few months back. He did warn me to continue my diligence, and make good choices when eating out. But followed up that as I am today, right then and there during the exam, I was doing good and should continue what I am doing.

Originally, we expected that Dr. Fowler would "fire" me today, meaning turn me back over to my local cardiologist for only his care. I do see Dr. Dhar regularly too, but for now will continue to see Dr. Fowler. So we shall visit again in December.

But for now I am living life to the fullest. Loving my family, spoiling the grand kids, playing with fiber all the time, having lunches and spending time with sisters and friends, and just remembering that today is today, yesterday is gone, and tomorrow may never come.

P.S. Here's a little update added today, 8/10/13, since a few have asked and I actually planned to include this initially:
     The drive home was a bit longer, 3 hours rather than the 2 hours it took to get there. Dr. Fowler actually apologized as my visit with him finished up. After remembering where I was driving home to, through the South Bay and then the North Bay, right at commute traffic, and realizing I had waited some time to see him, he was suggesting places I could stop and while away some time rather than jump into hours of slow moving traffic.  I thought the drive would be horrible too as I approached the freeway from Stanford. Traffic was backed up just trying to get on 280. But once I did, things eased up, and with a couple of slow spots along the way, things were moving pretty good. Then I got to the bridge on Hwy 37 (the one before you get to the Lakeville Rd intersection), and traffic was a parking lot, practically. But no worries on my part, I was re-listening to the audio book of the first series of Outlander as a refresher for the new series that started Saturday. Yes, I was tired when I returned, but all in all it was a good day.

Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •

THANKS for visiting! I look forward to your comments.

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

All is Well

Wow, it's been awhile since I posted. It's all good, as I am feeling good. We've been having a bit of summer fun -- I'm getting out walking, getting together with family and friends, doing some spinning, knitting (cute pink things), and quilting, to name a few; not to mention time with the alpacas and Maremmas. Oh, and we're finally getting to so many things around the house and property that have been let go for the last 3.5 years, like a new roof, etc. I guess we've been a tad distracted during this time. But I hope we keep all the fun and activities up for a long time to come.

Just last week we welcomed a granddaughter to our family...
     Beautiful Madeleine Mae Barsun ~
     7 lbs 14 oz, 20"
     born on July 28, 2014, which was her due date.
  


Madeleine shares her middle name with her grandmother on her Daddy's side, and with my late mother, Gloria. She is a peaceful little angel, and was welcomed with open arms by her entire family; although big brother Nico thinks maybe she could stay somewhere else at least once in awhile.
Then there was the 2014 Sonoma Relay for Life: 

 


Some frozen yogurt time with Gaige and Sarah:



 And a few trips to spend time with Nico and his new little sister and family.



So that's the latest and greatest from me. I see my Stanford Cardiologist tomorrow, so stay tuned for a report once the long day driving to and fro and seeing the Doc is over.


Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •

THANKS for visiting! I look forward to your comments.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

3 years...

It's been three years since my lumpectomy surgery. Sometimes it feels longer, other times it feels like yesterday. But what is most important to me, is that I continue to be in remission (we are never cancer-free) and continue to feel good, in spite of the severe heart failure. So today -- LIFE IS GOOD!

Thanks to all my friends and family for their love and support over the last three years. It is amazing, and helps me to continue to put one foot in front of the other each and every day.

Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
LIVESTRONG

• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •
THANKS for visiting! Comments are good. I look forward to your comment.

Monday, June 9, 2014

Mixing It Up a Bit

So my entire life is not about cancer or heart failure, and I feel the need to mix it up a bit here. Yes, I've shared moments in my life about family and camping; but fiber is also a big part of me. Knitting and spinning to be specific. Once in a while I mix in some dyeing, weaving or felting, but that is pretty rare.

Recently I had the fun opportunity to attend the Valley Ford Wool Festival, put on by the Valley Ford Mercantile and Fibershed, of which Brookfarm is a member. A group of like-minded ladies from my Sonoma spinning/knit group made the trip over to Valley Ford and enjoyed the open air event, mill tour, shopping, and lunch at Oyster Rockefellers.  And guess what followed me home -- some beautiful hand-dyed rovings, buttons, and a pair of earrings. Not to mention laughter and tactile fun.

And if you are one who ask, "Why would you ever use fiber other than alpaca?" with almost a look of disgust and amazement. Well, in answer, I say, "Because I need to support other farms, like-minded artisans, and test other fibers."

The fact is I love all the beautiful colors and love playing with it too, in addition to my gorgeous natural-color alpaca fibers.


Here is of my stash from the event



I have two braids of this color below, which has long runs of solid color.




Here I am just partially into the spinning of the first section of aqua changing into green 



 This is closer to the end of the braid where it turns light yellow into a slight peach color. My plan is to spin the second braid in a similar fashion, ply them together so similar color matches up along side. Then I hope to find a lacey shawl pattern that will highlight these long color runs and subtle color transitions.
 

Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
LIVESTRONG

• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •
THANKS for visiting! Comments are good. I look forward to your comment.



Thursday, May 15, 2014

Three Years Later

Saturday, May 17th, marks three years since my last chemotherapy treatment. Has it really been 3 years already. Some days it seems like much longer, and others.... well I think you know how that ends.

Although it has not been smooth sailing all the three years since; especially since the chemo was followed by surgery (lumpectomy) on June 24, 2011, and then radiation that ended late September that year.  It is amazing how those dates do not slip your memory. They are cemented in as reminders of where we've been, what we've been through, and all the loved ones who helped to pull us through it all.

And won't even begin to relive this year. But I'm feeling darn good right now, and sticking to it as best I can!

So here's to another 3 years, then 6, then 12, then....




August 2011 at Relay for Life, as I was undergoing radiation.
This past Sunday - Mother's Day

Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
LIVESTRONG

• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •
THANKS for visiting! Comments are good. I look forward to your comment.







Sunday, May 11, 2014

THANK YOU to Healthline for the Honor of One of the Best Breast Cancer Blogs of 2014.

Once again, I am humbled and honored to have my Blog chosen as one of Healthline's Best Breast Cancer Blogs of 2014.

I just say it like it happens, or how I feel. And it doesn't seem to be over yet. I mean, the cancer, SO FAR, is in remission. But the side effects of the chemo seem to be ever lasting. Damn Cancer! But today is a good day, and I have so much to be thankful for and feel so blessed at this moment in time.

As Healthline honors my Blog, Deb's Breast Cancer Journey , they say,

Deb’s Breast Cancer Journey

It’s a troubling reality for many breast cancer patients: Even after successful treatment, more and seemingly unrelated health problems develop. Deb's Breast Cancer Journey blog’s subtitle, “My Journey Past Breast Cancer and into Cardiomyopathy,” represents that challenging layer in Debbie Emery’s story.
But this indomitable Californian recognizes what her blog posts do for her and for those who read them. She writes, “My wish is that I will gain strength from you, will provide strength to others & will help to strip away the fears we each experience.”
Please do check out the other 24 Blogs recognized by Healthline. There are some truly amazing stories, and some truly amazing people out there telling these stories.

Thank you, Healthline, for this honor once again.

Life is Good...

Debbie... aka the cancer SURVIVOR, 
AND now the Cardiomyopathy warrior!!!
LIVESTRONG

• I AM STRONG • I AM HEALTHY • I AM LOVED •
THANKS for visiting! Comments are good. I look forward to your comment.